Finding Happiness in Relationships - Pastor Steven Furtick
Everyone longs to give themselves to someone, to have a deep soul relationship with another, to be loved completely and exclusively. Not until you are satisfied, fulfilled and content with living with Me alone.
I lone you my child, and until you discover that only in Me is your satisfaction to be found, you will not be capable of the perfect human relationship I have planed for you. You will never be satisfied united with another until your are united with Meexclusive of anyone or anything else, exclusive of any other desires of longings.
I want you t stop planning, stop wishing and allow Me to give you the most thrilling plan existingone that you cannot imagine.
I want you to have the very best. Please allow Me to bring it to you. You must be patient and wait. Just keep looking at me or you will miss what I want to give to you. And then when you are ready, I sill surprise you with a love more far more wonderful than you could ever dream of. You se; Until you are ready and until the one I am preparing for you is ready, I am working even this very minute to have both of you ready at the same time.
And dear one I want you to have this most wonderful love.
I want you to see in the flesh a picture of your relationship with me; And, to enjoy materially and concretely the everlasting union of beauty and perfection united together with Me and the one I have for you! Wow, this post really spoke to me.
Abba Father is molding me to become a better person, likewise my other half. Thank you again! Those words are so true. I will keep this as a reminder before getting in another relationship. Thanks again. Thank you Dr. As an example someone sought me out on a different dating site, we agreed I thought we would be friends and email, talk and see each other casually without expectations and see and talk to others too.
Why does God bring someone into a life only for the person to just disappear? Thank you for the confirmation that my idea is right.Finding Happiness in Relationships - Pastor Steven Furtick
Thanks Jim. I got involved with a man who was full of scripture and there has been plus sides to the dating relationship. But the negative sides have upset my well-being. I was just so happy to find a person like him after 15 years of being single again that I jumped in kind of head over heals. Pray that a righteous non-abusive man will come my way when the time is right. I hope to read more of your writings later.
God bless your ministry. I would like to read more of your articles. If possible please send them to my email. I will be so grateful. Hi there, we do not send emails with our articles, the point is for you to come to our blog and read about our posts.
Have a great day! Yeah this spoke to me personally.
Dating And Relationships
Im struggling with the fact that i became attracted to this women who has a heart for God and wants others to experience God themselves. She sings and plays the piano.
Bible verses about dating and relationships. Try to find anything about dating in the Bible, you will not find anything. Nor will you find anything about courtship, but we do have biblical principles to help you when seeking a Christian relationship. God and dating relationships - Want to meet eligible single woman who share your zest for life? Indeed, for those who've tried and failed to find the right man offline, internet dating can provide. Join the leader in online dating services and find a date today. Join and search! Register and search over 40 million singles: matches and more.ņ‚ÚÓū: Carlene. Godís Word really does open up to us the mysteries of the universe. It really does make us wiser than we could ever be without it. And yet, having said all this, it's sad that we donít take more advantage of this wisdom God has given us.
We have quite a few similarities and passions. We are both wanting more of God.
I really liked her because of her passion for God and i started feeling head over heals for her. A month ago i prayed everyday that Gods will be done and not mine, as i was praying and in worship i felt an impression on my heart that im to wait and give it to God about her for a later time. I asked her out and later she said shes not ready right now, that she needs to be closer to God, but she thanked me for being interested in her.
Idk what she meant by that but ive been really struggling with this because verything ive been praying for in a wlGodly ive seen in her. Idk if i should just give up on her completely or god deeper into God and see where he wwnts me to go from here. If u could, can u email me at reachfortheskiesinlife gmail.
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Thank you for your post. I agree. I was wondering what your thoughts were on if a relationship moved too fast, can you go back, start over, have a second chance? I do not believe God brings people together for the purpose of marriage. If he did, there would be no divorce. We all choose the partner we are with; God has nothing to do with it.
Just like I chose my ex-wife; she divorced me years ago. Are you able to leave your mother and father? Do you have any responsibilities or are your parents paying for everything? Are you able to live on your own and provide? Are you a man? Does society consider you a man?
God loves His daughter. She is always going to be his precious little baby in his eyes. The love between a father and his daughter is so great. He will die for his daughter. He will kill for his daughter.
Now Imagine how much greater is the love of a holy God. Imagine His seriousness if you lead His daughter down the wrong path.
When it comes to His daughter God does not play. Listen to her, respect her, and always keep her into consideration. Honor them as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing may interfere with your prayers. Can Christians kiss? Maybe, but let me explain. Anything that leads you to indulge in sexual thoughts is sinful. Some Christians choose not to start kissing before marriage and some Christians choose to hug and kiss lightly.
What is going on in your heart? What is your mind saying? What is your purpose? Kissing for a long period of time with someone who you are not married to is wrong, it is a form of foreplay, and it will cause you to fall. Think about this.
†∑ Sometimes God seems distant in the quest for marriage, but His involvement may be greater than you think. In the fall of , I wrote a series for the Boundless blog about trusting God with relationships. At the time, I was single and well on my way to my 30th birthday. The series generated.
Waiting and disciplining yourself in many areas will make your sexual relationship in marriage more unique, special, godly, and intimate. Never compromise! This is something that you should really pray about and listen to the Lord. In some type of way you will fall. The desires for the opposite sex are so strong that we are told to run. We are not given power to endure it. You are not strong enough.
Stay away! The world teaches you to have sex before marriage. When you hear about Christians living in sexual sin they are false converts and not truly saved. Seek purity. If you have gone too far repent. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body. In relationships you are to lead each other to Christ. You are to chase Christ together.
If you get into a relationship with an ungodly person they will slow you down. Run to Christ and whoever is keeping up with you introduce yourself. Not only are you to lead each other by the way you live your life, but you have to worship together.
In a relationship you both are going to learn from each other, but the woman takes the submissive role and the man takes the leadership role. You will regret it. Are you pursuing them for godly reasons?
I am not saying that you should not be attracted to the person who you are dating because you should be. If God blesses you with a very beautiful godly woman or handsome man that is OK, but looks are not everything. If you are looking for a supermodel you must know that extreme pickiness is not good and also there is a strong chance that you are not a supermodel.
No one is if you remove all the editing and makeup. Sometimes the woman is Christian, but she is unsubmissive and contentious. What to look for in a godly man? Take this into consideration.
Is he a man? Is he growing into a man? Does he want to be a leader? Look for godliness because a husband is to one day be your spiritual leader. Look for his love for the Lord and the advancement of His kingdom. Is he seeking to bring you towards Christ? Does he work hard? Does he have godly and respectable goals?
Can he handle money well? Is he generous? Is he living in godliness and seeking to obey the Word? Is God working in his life and making him more like Christ? Does he have a strong prayer life? Does he pray for you?
Is he honest? Does he seek to take your purity? How does he treat others? Is he violent?
By guarding it according to your word. What to look for in a godly woman? Has she surrendered her life to the Lord? Does she allow you to lead? Is she submissive? Does she seek to build you up and help you with what God has for you? Does she constantly nag and belittle you? Is she clean?
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Is her house and car always messy? That is going to be your house. Is she pressuring you to have sex with her? Does she dress sensually, run if she does. Does she respect her father? Is she seeking to be a virtuous woman? Is she contentious? Is she lazy? Can she run a household?
Does she fear God? Is she a prayer warrior? Is she trustworthy? In this way they will train the younger women to love their husbands, to love their children, to be self-controlled, pure, fulfilling their duties at home, kind, being subject to their own husbandsso that the message of God may not be discredited.
She selects wool and flax and works with willing hands. She is like the merchant ships, bringing her food from far away. She rises while it is still night and provides food for her household and portions for her female servants. She evaluates a field and buys it; she plants a vineyard with her earnings. She draws on her strength and reveals that her arms are strong.
She sees that her profits are good, and her lamp never goes out at night. She extends her hands to the spinning staff, and her hands hold the spindle. Her hands reach out to the poor, and she extends her hands to the needy.