Mark Is Determined To Marry Filipino Girl 39 Years His Junior - 90 Day Fiance
I think you should put your foot down. She is 19 years old and if she is old enough to date a man who is 36 then she is old enough to move out and get her own place or make her own mistakes. I know it is hard but you have to let her live her own life, not under your roof.
When I was 18 I met and married a man who was It lasted for 7 years. He did not treat me bad and we had 3 kids together but it just did not work. I am married now to a man who is 6 years older than me and am very happy. My point is - Let her grow up on her own. Let her know that you are not happy with her dating this man and as long as you are paying her bills you want her to stop. If she has a fit tell her to move out.
She needs to grow up and you need to let her go. I hate to say it but there is really nothing you can legally do. Keep in my she is still a teenager. Yet she is of legal age. So putting your foot down will probably push her out and into him. Best advice I can give you is to talk to her as an adult not a parent.
Tell her you expect the same from her. Explain how you feel, but be nice. Ask her to really think about her relationship with this man. I would also check into his family. Because someone like that is basically a cradle robber and may even be a child molestor. There really is not going to be much you can do.
36 dating 19 year old
He may be legit in how he feels but it is highly suspect. The only thing you can really do is hope and pray for your daughter. When something does go wrong at least try to be there for her. The ONLY success I have seen in these kinds of situations is to, hard as it is, talk to her as if she were your friend, not the child that you changed diapers, taught to ride a bike, and watched grow through high school.
You are exactly right!! Let her be the one to decide that hes not for her but be there for her and point out the adversities of the situation. Also, my father is living with a girl who is three years younger than I am, and the longer they are together the easier it gets to deal with it.
It is possible they really love each other. Tell your daughter to invite him over to the house only when you are home, for dinner or watching tv.
Order your daughter to help set the table, cook or order the pizza with you and do the dishes. Do not ask him to help her, he is a guest.
Sofia Richie, daughter of Lionel Richie, is dating the reality star and father of three and she’s only 19 years old. Scott is Why Do Grown Men Date Year-Olds? When I was 39 years, 3 months, and 16 days, a girl I had known for about 3 years asked me on a date, she was 18 years, 1 month, and 6 days old. I was her first date, first kiss, etc. 86 days later we moved in together. We were together 5 years, 5.
If he stays after dinner, tell your daughter she has a carefew in from of him. If they decide to go out, ask him to bring her home at the time you decide. Do this several times with a smile on your face Pretty soon he will fly away in search of a free lady and leave your daughter alone. Just remember what I said And remember, asking advice is always good, but in the end, do whats right for you.
Take my word for it.
What Is With These Grown Men Dating Year-Olds? (Besides the Obvious)
Just PlayinDec 20, With all the good advice and experiences here you should remember that these are different times. Mostly for the excitement and taboo of the whole thing. But, nowdays there are so many things to watch out for. The mere fact that you are concerned about the legal ramifications go to my point. This is really not the times to be fooling around with people you do not know or trust.
My nieces and nephews hate me. TibbsDec 21, At age 50 for him, she will be. I can not happily joke along that its legal, it only has one useful purpose.
I know, I did it. Her daughter rocked too. But I sure didnt get too involved with em.Sid Singh - 26 Dating a 19 Year Old
Major AttitudeDec 21, The question was can a 19yr old date a 36 yr old. Yes, if 19 is past the age of majority. Go for it. If this is a passing fancy use the experience and learn how to treat a woman. Uncle BobDec 21, Been there. KodoDec 21, I say go for it. FreddyDec 21, Where I live, it happens all the time.
If you were to ask my opinion, I would give it freely. Shiver Me TimbersDec 21, Been there done that.
Despite the use of protection, she got pregnant times 2. She took full advantage of my naivity, and I ended up getting screwed in the end. After the sex got old, we discovered there was no other foundation for a real relationship. Can a 19 year old date a 36 year old Hell ya, I am still attracted to older women.
Women to me that are between 35 and 45 are just yummy. The opposite end of the spectrum is I am always asked by really cute year olds. They are trying to flirt and as flattering as it is - I would never date a 19 year old.
Sure the sex would be great, but the drama involved and the fact that we would have nothing in common keeps me from going down that road. It really gets on my nerves quick. You know me a little now, and you know I live in GA, too. I live in a college town and yr. If you think it will be okay for you, then go for it.
Older women are soooooo sexy. Just be cautious and realize what you are getting into.
Make sure there is more of a foundation for a relationship than sex. Sex will fade, but a solid relationship can last forever. Age is only a state of mind. Well atleast until stuff stops working like it used to. And if you do proceed, and she gets pregnant - and you get screwed. You know where to go for support.
Would you date a 19 year old? 36 - 39 36 points · 3 years ago. Dating older guys is fine. A 19 year old dating a 30+ year old is a little different. I would never consider it. You may be mature for your age, and you may really like older guys, but you just aren't on the same playing field that they are. 09/03/ · Can a 19 year old date a 36 year old Hell ya, I am still attracted to older women. I find, however, that the older I get the closer in age the women I'm attracted to are. Women (to me) that are between 35 and 45 are just yummy. Because of past experience though, I refrain from dating and I concentrate on my children's lives. First of all - stop calling them girls. If you specifically want to date women that are 10 to 15 years your junior because they are young you're going to be (not seem) creepy, regardless. That's a SUPER crappy reason to date a person. Mainly be.
Thanks again for helping support me the other day. BTW: for those that are interested. In addition to this forum, I belong to another support forum. It is called "Responsible Single Fathers", it is not gender exclusive. We have some female members, too. If you are interested there is a link in the Networking sub-forum under the tiltle, "Great site hacked - help!
Thanks to everyone who offered their support. Learning As I GoDec 21, SolangeDec 23, Just a quick clarification. Atleast in my case, the only reason age was a factor in my relationship - was I had a lack of it.
I agree that bad people do bad things regardless of their age. It is just harder to spot the warning signs when you are young. Learning As I GoDec 23, ASUSMar 8, And we resurrected a four-year-and-four-month-old thread because TibbsMar 9, KathyMMar 9, You must log in or sign up to reply here.