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In my 20s I would have considered dating a German guy boring. In my 30s it became sexy. If he likes you, he may even call the next day. Germans have rules for almost everything. This has happened to dozens of friends of mine in Munich.

Wear whatever clothes you feel like. Act on a whim. Don't be afraid to be too loud or too reserved or too different. Who wants to be vanilla anyway? Don't come on too strong. Aquarius craves freedom and independence. If you come on too strong, he'll be gone like the wind. That's part of the reason being friends first is so important!

Let him know that you are cool and casual. Be a little detached. Nothing is a big deal with you. That lack of stress and drama is something Aquarians definitely are attracted to. That way when he does ask you out, he knows you won't freak out one way or another. Have a fun, not super serious relationship in mind. In general, it's pretty hard to tie an Aquarius down, at least initially. They don't like talking about labels or being boxed in to anything. If you take is slow and don't put pressure on the relationship, it'll last much, much longer.

Your relationship, at least in the beginning stages, is all about enjoying each other and having fun. And there is nothing wrong with that. If you want to go to the chapel after 5 dates, calm it down. There can be time for that later. Part 1 Quiz Which of these is the most attractive to an Aquarian? Want more quizzes? Keep testing yourself!

Part Two of Three: Cultivating a Relationship. Keep the surprises coming. Since Aquarius is curious about everything, they love surprises. They love learning, they love experience, they love doing -- they love living to the fullest.

A spicy, fulfilling relationship to them is one that keeps their brains running, wondering what's around the corner. So surprise them! Don't be afraid to go for the shock factor. It's almost impossible to shock an Aquarius, so make it a personal challenge to do so! Suggest doing some crazy things -- chocolate covered grasshoppers, anyone? Talk about everything. Aquarians, in general, are open books.

They have no qualms when it comes to talking about even the most taboo of topics. Engage them in politics, current events, morals and ethics -- whatever it is, they'll take it and run with it. The more things you're capable of talking about together, the better! Don't worry about offending their principles. They love hearing others' opinions, even if they don't agree with their own.

So long as you have an opinion and a reason to stand behind it, they'll respect what you have to say. As far as the signs go, they're one of the best, most diplomatic arguers and conversationalists.

Get creative together. You know how we talked about Aquarius' creativity? Do it together! While you should definitely have separate hobbies, do spend some of your free time combining powers.

Whether it's pottery, designing a website, or planning a trip, your relationship will be that much sturdier when you have projects to work on.

One of the benefits of dating an Aquarius? They can teach you. If you don't know thing one about photography, playing the piano, or whatever it is your Aquarius does well, have him show you the ropes. You'll stand on your own two feet eventually, but in the meantime, let him wrap his arms around you while you both click the buttons or pound the ivories.

Use reason and logic, not emotion. Aquarius is a sign that resonates strongest in the brain. His heart is not something he uses often -- or at least willingly. If you want to relate to him, use reason and logic. Don't use tears, guilt, or any other feeling to get your way.

It won't work. But a sound argument just might! If you're having a fight, explain how you're feeling in the most reasonable of terms. Remove yourself from you for a bit and take a more objective stance. Instead of saying, "Oh my gosh!! Know that he can be avoidant. So here's the thing about Aquarius: since they're not really keen on emotions, they're susceptible to freaking out when they get them.

So if your man starts being a bit avoidant or anxious, it actually could be because his feelings are getting too strong. When this happens, remember this fact -- or the relationship will fall apart very quickly. The only thing you can really do is to talk about it. Have a nice weekend. Julia - I think generally speaking yes, but if you ask them directly if something is wrong, I've found them to be more open than Canadian guys.

Let me know how it goes! Hi Laurel, I would say he worked hard in wooing me to get me, because we met online.

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But now he is more relax now, and compare to what I read German Guys are really not that way. I asked him as you had mentioned, he told me he was having personal problems, but he did not want to talk about this time with me.

So I let it go, and decided when he was ready he would let me know. H e let me know when he has plans to do things with friends and family.

He tells me that I am wonderful and he misses me so much, almost daily. We have not been speaking much because of this, but two days ago he called me to tell me he wanted to hear my voice before he went to sleep.

The time difference is also a killer for us. When he is going to work I am going to sleep, so what I am doing is giving him his space. I also let him know that I am here for him if he needs me to talk about anything that is bothering him he can vent.

So I am drowning myself with work, But I must say dating a German is defiantly different than dating an American or Scottish. But all is it a cultural difference. Laurel I wanted to know if you live in Germany? But thank you for your advice and writing this blog educating us on German Guys. Julia - It sounds like you guys have a great connection, but need to meet as soon as possible. Maybe you can meet somewhere halfway and spend a weekend together? While it's great to have an online and telephone connection, nothing compares to seeing what it's like in person, before you invest too much time in the relationship.

I visited my now husband two months after we met on vacation as I wanted to see what his life was life in Germany and that was really helpful. I've lived in Germany for over 5 years now.

Best of luck! They know how to make you feel badly.

As someone very wise once said, you will never find it if you are actively looking for it, love only graces when you are least expecting -- it is the. Being single; it has its perks and pits. Being able to do whatever you want is a plus, but wanting snuggles and having no one to snuggle with. After an overwhelming response to the question What are the perks of dating you, summed up in a short paragraph?, here is another one - how can I date you?.

If you have to wait until their are accustomed to see you around, It can last one year or more, what means they are racist because like people from community, and not people because they are simple people.

German are moody, unfriendly, conformist, and without sexual hormones, to not say indifferent to all the subtleties of love and tenderness. All the world is romantic but Germans. Even a Japanese robot is more sentimental. I am not kidding, that is really fucking awesome. There is not way to describe them without insulting them, because they are insulting all type of kindness with their behaviour.

They want only be the best at obey their race, they are very tribal, they have the last model of iapple but their soul are in the medieval age yet. They want only have children for the state, live alone, and practice only single activities. They prefer a dog than a chat with a foreigner.

If you come to Sachssen, You will see all the parks full of solitaries people with dogs, complete silents, no smile, no laughter, The perfect world to be a statue and do only your job. They say they know Peru, but they dont know have to buy a ticket bus in Lima or how to cook a Ceviche, etc. Leindenschaft only at work and shopping new gadgets. We all know how their are and that will not change.

We are very kind with thesedisrespectful and rude tribe. I live in Germany and they don't know what smile means!!! Sie sind hasslichen!! I have never see a couple of Germans kissing in the street!!!! I swear you. Garrafa - I'm very sorry to hear that you've had such a negative experience. I'm grateful that my experience has been much better. I hope you are able to find some nice German friends, as there are nice people everywhere.

I enjoyed your article. I just met a German man. We both work internationally and are well traveled. We met as work friends but it's a big company so I don't see him very much. I saw him out one night and he gave me a look and smiled so a few days later I asked him out. We had a good time and he thanked me, said the pleasure was all his, when I replied thanks for coming.

Long story short we had talked about going to a movie. His exact words to me after saying I wouldn't mind seeing it since he had said he was a fan were, sounds like a plan. But he never actually sought me out for a second date. After a week I saw him again and he said yes he would like to see the movie but he didn't know when asking me when I wanted to go. I said I don't know anytime so he replied he would think about it and I could think about it.

I told him stop by my office. Also before I asked him if he wanted my phone number and he said yes but his friends came over and he said I will get it from you next week. Sorry for all the details, but I can't figure out if he is just being polite and not interested as he never came to get my number. He is a genuinely nice person, but a usually a polite American response is a blow off. I knew enough about German men to pursue him a little but how far does being direct go?

Would he rather be polite than say no? Thanks for listening hope you can offer some insight! Marsha - Thanks for your comment. If he hasn't asked for your number yet, despite you showing interest, my guess is that he's either not interested, or it's not a good time for him to pursue a romantic relationship - I hope I'm wrong, but that's my two sense. Best of luck and let me know how it turns out. Thanks Laurel. I guess I just get this subtle feeling that he is attracted to me by the way he looked at me during our "date", or the way he waited by the door looking at me after an event but I was too shy to walk over and talk to him, or the way he stopped in mid sentence when talking to someone else to stop and talk to me, and the way he did not stop the conversation even though people were waiting for him and there were pauses when he could have easily excused himself or when he told me he would like to take me out to dinner.

I will say I asked him out very casually as in hey I have an extra ticket to this concert do you want to go? But you do have a point that he has not asked for my number. Do you have any guesses why if Germans are so direct he would not have politely declined the movie invitation?

I think I am just going to give him my number and tell him I am interested in getting to know him better and having some fun, unless your readers think it is a bad idea. I know you are a busy woman so I understand if you don't reply. I was just hoping something would work out between us. Thanks again! Marsha - Some Germans do modify their behaviour when they're around other cultures that are not as direct as they are, especially those that are well traveled. I truly hope it works out for you.

British are better than German guys The looks, the charm and the chivalry!

Shreya Pandey's answer to What are the perks of dating you? - Quora. Why don't you find out yourself? Straight 19 year old Male here. * I like having edgy, no bullshit conversations implying no drama. * I like food. He'll tell you why he doesn't like you.

I've been to Germany and the guys were OK, no match for me though. I got all the fraulines! You also forgotten to mention that the British are better flirts than the Germans. I'm dating a typical German guy for 6 months now and this article is really true they might be boring, very private, cold, workaholic, not so romantic and so many things but they are also a real Gentlemen and a keeper.

Affe - So glad to hear that you're having such a great experience with your German guy! I have just read this forum on Dating Germans. I am a 27 yr old man who just recently met a nice German young woman who lives in Germany.

She and I have been corresponding for a couple weeks off and on. I have noticed that she is a bit more reserved and honest in comparison to American girls. I would like to know how to tell her I feel and I would also like some tips on how to continue corresponding fear of not having enough to talk about soon. I do not wish to scare her away.

As a benefit and a way to impress her, ive been trying to learn the German language day by day. I've even tried singing a German version of a song for her If anyone has any tips or pointers, I am open to them all. Andrew - Your observations sound spot-on. The good thing about Germans is that you can be honest with how you're feeling and just tell her. When I told my husband about some of the games that people typically play in North America i. The other important thing to do is if you say you're going to do something i.

Germans take things much more literally than North Americans do and don't just say things to be polite - if they say something they typically mean it. This was a great read thanks! I only know he's german because I heard him and his buddy speaking the language, but they switched to English when I entered the elevator.

Anyways, its' the weirdest attraction, or maybe not at all? I feel like there is an attraction between us, I can feel it.

But maybe it's just my imagination?

I always seem to run into him when he has his son with him, and he always says "hello, how are you? He always has this huge smile when we see each other.

But the one time it was just the two of us, he said "oh, ugh, Hi". And continued on to say nothing at all, and I left. The next time he saw me, it seemed like he wanted me to stop and hav ea conversation? Maybe I read it wrong. Anyway, its the most bizarre situation of my life, I can't read him.

Some insight into his culture might help to explain things though. Confused It sounds like he's interested. From my experience, and from a North American perspective, I find Germans to be awkward initially in romantic situations very generally speaking of courseand if he's saying "How are you? Germans don't ask this question unless they really want to know. Let me know how it turns out. He showed up ten minutes early, and I ran late 10 min I'm hardly late and then he's so freaking honest and forward in a polite manner to me.

He's trusting in me, by letting me house sit at his apt, after one date. He doesn't push me to answer his questions, if I don't want to answer, he just moves onto the next thing.

It's my first time dating a true German and so far I can't wait if this blossoms into something more serious and romantic but I can't wait to find out :. Michelle - Glad to hear that you're having such a great experience with a German guy, keep me posted on how it works out :. He spent some months in my hometown, he was pretty nice with me, I mean, he would give me some company when I was doing house siting or supporting me in different ways, we spent a great deal of time together, also, he was pretty funny guy.

Anyway, unfortunaletly, he didn't felt the way I did when I express my feeling to him and he return to Germany. This was't that bad because I appreciate his honesty and his kindness, he treated me with much respect.

After that, I didn't expect nothing, I didn't hope nothing and I don't because, just like you said, as german, he was straighforward and simple. He always was like that, no playing games which I love. So far, we are still in touch, from time to time we email.

By now, I'm planning to visit him and he has already offer himself to tour me around Germany along with his family, pretty neat. Although, things didn't work between us, I'm happy that we're still friends something that I cannot say with some other guys. Your post is very interesting and informative, thank you! I have been talking to a German guy for almost two months and we finally went out. Things were going very well and we met every week consistently for three weeks and he expressed his interest for me throughout.

He also actively texted me his location when he was traveling out of town for work. However we are not big fan of texting so we don't exchange texts every other minute but would text everyday just to say our greetings. I like him a lot as he is always genuine and kind. But after the third date after he tried to crack a really dry joke to inform me that he is back in town and I replied with sarcasm because he unknowingly offended mehe stopped texting me actively.

So I decided to text him first for the first time to ask when he wanted to hang out again. He gave me a smiley when he received my text but told me he was busy over the weekend.

He did explain in detail who bothers to explain in detail if they are not interested? The female hormonal side of me also thinks that something is wrong since he doesn't text his goodnights to me anymore haha! I would really appreciate any form of insights from fellow readers.

What does it mean when he didnt reply to my question, do they lie? Gladys - Probably that he didn't want to answer it, or knew that he wouldn't answer it in a way that you would like. Typically, and there are exceptions, Germans are very honest.

I actually like what you said just like my boyfriend we we're in a long distance relationship he was so true and that what makes me love him more we will be meeting this summer and he was planning to marry me and start a family together, but what scares me is that i am from a far country we are miles away I was thinking after he impregnated me he might leave me.

Hello, Thank you for the article about German guys as I met a German guy.

Let me ask you please! I met a German guy on online a year ago. I think he asked me to give some tips about my country as he was going to visit soon. We exchanged Facebook and started to talk on FB messenger. After he came back to Germany he asked me to do Skype.

After7 months, somehow we started talk again. It was last November. I told him I wants to have a serious relationship but not many people looking for it in here. And he also said he is looking for something serious. Anyway since we started to talk again, he said he wants to come to see me after Christmas.

We started to paln what we will do when he comes. We also did Skype few times. And then He really got flight tickets which is not cheep. I live in London by the way so not that far. Long story short, he came to visit me from the first January. I picked up him at the station and he brought me so many German sweets and some presents which is so sweet of him.

There was another my friend so we did sightseeing together. I thought he was quiet person but not at all. He is very talkative and actually he has nice sense of humour. I had quite good feeling from the first day.

This sound crazy maybe but he stayed at my house. We kissed and also had sex on first day. I was so regret as he seems bit cold after sex. But day by day we got along really well. We have same value, same taste of music, foods, sense of humour We laughed a lot together. What makes me so smile is when we went to super market, he got me Macaroon and Sushi I am Japanese every time.

On third day, we went to Bath and stayed there a night. I felt really sweet of him about it. Nobody did this to me in my life honestly.

I felt how he cares about me. Also he paid for it I asked to separate pay but he refused. And it was so cold so he putted his hat on me and held my hand when we walked. Also he carried my water all the time.

Very very kind. Anyway next day we explored the city and we found a leather shop in a market and he got us same bracelets. He said this is for our friendship! Long story short, We went to some other cities for few days.

The last day, we were preparing to go to nightclub. He passed me our bracelets to wear without say anything which was so cute! We went to a nightclub and danced together. He said he will miss me and I am a special girl for him.

He asked me to call his name. And he called me my name. I really felt connection with him. The last day, we went to a market and had lunch together. And then I took him to the station. He said thank you for a week, he enjoyed so much with me. I said I did too so much. And he told me to come to Germany.

I said of course yes I will. And we kessed many times and said see ya. After he arrived Germany, he texted me that he arrived safely and thanks for a week. And his doctor was his house when he back so he got some medicine for throat so I should go to see doctor too.

Actually today was his birthday so I sent him a message and our video I made it. But I am afraid that he will disappear. I am not in love him yet but I like him very much.

And I thought he feels the same why by his behaviour. Do you think he came to visit me just for have fun?? Or he is playing game?? Or he is just busy?? What should I do??

Aparajita Dutta. Dear Laurel, First of all congratulations on finding such a great guy. I wish you two eternal happiness. I am an Indian girl who met a German guy during my recent Phi Phi island trip. I have never been friends or been romantically involved with a foreigner so while everything about him is so new and different and sometimes shocking, I am more at ease now and your article is bull's eye when it comes to him.

Every description just matched! And after meeting a lot of horrible deceitful men and getting my heart mercilessly broken, my German guy is so refreshingly and unexpectedly wonderful.

It's like getting a wonderful gift without asking for it! N he calls me his Pochahontas and finds me exotic because of my brown skin which is so endearing because I am quite average looking. It's strange what life gives you when you expect nothing because you have lost hope. This is the first time a guy has told me"Don't break my heart"! I was laughing inside because that is usually my statement.

I am actually as biased now about Germans as you are after meeting him and while we don't know what the future holds because of our many differences, I can safely say he's the most wonderfully unexpected gift in my life.

Aprajita, So glad that you found it helpful and I wish you too the best and much happiness. Well this actually left me confused! I met a German guy after 4 days of chatting we had to much snow. I sent him a text after work that I wish we have known each other so we could go out to play snowball. He replied " I have not played snowball for so long time so let's do it". I actually thought is a joke I replied,: crazy first date in the snow!

Yeah let's do it, let's do something different from everyone else. He replied I am picking you up in 30 mins. I quickly dressed in snow boots hat gloves and he was there 2 mins early.

I didn't know what to expect! We had a good time laughing, as he throw snowball hit my face he quickly hold me and kissed my face and apologised. I said I am fine that's what we are here for. I told him I want to pick something from home he dropped me I grabbed 2 sledges we had a good fun. Then he kissed me in the forehead for good bye.

He quickly texted "I am sorry to hit your faceI replied it's fine really. He texted in the night that he missed me already.

On the first date! I said what made him missing me that quick? He said that he doesn't know but he has strange feelings for me. It wants you to be safe. We have the same genes now that we had 40, years ago. Talking to someone outside your tribe might have gotten you killed. Hence, your brain will scream and shout and freeze you and cause you actual physical pain if you want to talk to someone new. It takes practice to ignore the brain. Curiosity somehow bypasses the brain. So if I see, for instance, two people arguing, I'll focus on the curiosity instead of the pain that appears as I start to approach them.

Dress nice. Not in a suit. Just be clean. This seems obvious but it isn't.

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I will tell you a secret. Don't tell anyone. Sometimes I lie in the sidewalk near where I am staying and I ask people for money as they pass. I do this to practice talking in uncomfortable situations. I'm 48 years old. I shouldn't do this. My kids would be horrified. There's crap and pee on the sidewalk when I lie down.

But if you stand straight and dress nice and smile, people will stop and talk. Everyone has it hard.

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I watched an interview show the other day. A famous newscaster was on the street interviewing people. And then sometimes she'd look at the camera and make a face because she doesn't like who she is interviewing. I thought this was nasty and horrible. And the interviews were horrible. From the moment our feet finally leave the inside of our mother's womb, until the day we die, life is a battle.

Battles could be glorious but they can also cause much suffering. Respect everyone's battles. Respect that everyone has it hard, or harder, than you do. Don't fake sympathy or sincerity. People can smell that. If people feel you understand their hardships.

They will like you. One time I was interviewing a black transvestite prostitute.

How often did you read through Quora last year? It's possible that you had missed some really good answers on Quora but luckily, here's a list of the best Quora. By Quora. Getty Images . I wanted my date to like me. Here's what I'd do every You can follow Quora on Twitter, Facebook, and Google+. You've found a man who's ruled by the sign of Aquarius, huh? He's probably super creative, dynamic, and marching to the beat of his own drum. No wonder.

She told me her parents had been in jail since she was a kid and she got into trouble when she was young and raped in every juvenile detention center she was in until she was so hopeless confused as to her sexuality that she didn't know if she was a man or a woman.

And now that she is halfway in between, she was afraid to walk around during the day and have people stare at her. I had no way to relate to her at all. Nor would I give her the disrespect of feeling bad for her. She started talking about how the police were getting more aggressive. I could relate to authority sometimes preventing me from living the life I want to lead. I was able to ask her how she survived despite the police forcing her into a smaller and smaller box for her to live her life.

So she talked and talked. Finally someone to talk to. I do a podcast. I've interviewed hundreds of people. But the one hour I get to spend with that person is the only time I get to talk to them. And they often have their canned answers.

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